Dear Thelma,
I was never lucky in my love life when I was young. It was either I liked the guy and he didn't like me, or vice versa. There was this guy whom I liked, and one day he called me for a date. On our second date, we had a great time and our first kiss. After that, he did not contact me, as though he had vanished into thin air. It was hard for me to let go as he was always on my mind even after I had got married.
We reconnected after 30 years via Facebook. He is also married. We are in different countries. We continue to keep in touch and talk about things that happened 30 years ago. We find that we still have feelings for each other. Since then, we have been messaging each other daily and made a promise to meet up when the borders open.