Dear Thelma: I like this girl but she's in a relationship with someone else


By Thelma

Hopeless In Love

If she's married, then you must walk away. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and that trumps your crush. The same goes for couples who commit to each other without paperwork; it's the pledge that matters.

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