How to write a profile that attracts the person you're looking for


By AGENCY

When you write your online dating profile, the key is to make sure you come across as yourself, not a version of yourself you think someone wants to see. Photo: TNS/ Dreamstime

This is a question I get all the time: “How do I write a profile that attracts the person I’m looking for?”

My answer may surprise you: You don’t.

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