A co-parent should not try to dictate policy at the other parent’s home, including going zip lining. Photo: DAMIAN OLIVERA BERGALLO/Dreamstime/TNS
My ex has always tried to manage me. It has always been a problem and led to our breakup. I want to take our two adolescent sons, ages 10 and almost 12, zip lining next weekend. They are very excited. She said it was too dangerous, and she threatened to call the police if I tried to take them. I can do what I want when the kids are with me, and I told her so. She thinks she can run the show. What’s good ex-etiquette?
It is true that if the children are scheduled to be with you, you can make the plans you would like – if you are not breaking the law and the kids’ safety is not in question. In your case, Mum seems to believe the children are not safe, but her calling the police can’t stop you from going. It will, however, impact the children if they are present when the police arrive, so I suggest Mum take another look at calling the authorities.
