Looking for love? 10 dating tips from matchmaking experts

Face-to-face time together and communication helps you feel real chemistry. Photo: Freepik

With the rise of digitalisation, it is easier than ever to meet new people. Everything is just a click or a swipe away.

But with choices come complexities. StarLifestyle talks to two matchmaking and dating experts to find out how individuals can find love.

1. Be ready

Love isn’t just about ­meeting the right person – you also need to be the right one. Make sure you are mentally and emotionally prepared.

2. Focus on chemistry

Don’t look for perfection. A good conversation is a great start.

3. Go easy on the first date

Avoid oversharing and talking too much about your ex or personal issues early on.

4. Don’t ghost

If it’s not working out, just say so nicely. Everyone deserves honesty and closure.

5. Know what really matters

Looks and height may catch your eye, but values build a real connection. Know the difference between “nice to have” and “must-have”.

6. Meet in person when you can

Texting can only go so far. Face-to-face time together and communication help you feel real chemistry.

7. Drop the job interview vibe

A date isn’t a checklist – just see if you enjoy being with the person, and whether there’s a chance for a second date.

8. Take action

Love won’t knock on your door or fall from the sky into your lap. Join events, try new things and show up!

While it’s fine to pray for love, you also need to take action. Go out and meet people. Photo: Freepik

9. Be kind and respectful

Even if there’s no spark, treat others the way you’d like to be treated.

10. Love has no age limit

Whether you’re 25 or 55, it’s never too late to find someone special. So don’t give up.

Source: Lunch Actually and KL Speed Dating