Starchild: What Valentine's Day means to Malaysian children


Bethany Wang Qi Syuen, 11

Valentine's Day, celebrated on Feb 14, is often thought of as a special day for couples. But it is also an important day for children.

It is a wonderful opportunity for them to express love and appreciation for the people who care for them every day – such as parents, siblings and friends.

Roxanne Ng Yee Shuen, 12
Roxanne Ng Yee Shuen, 12
How did you celebrate Valentine’s Day? We hope you made a special card for your parents or caregivers. Or better yet, perhaps you prepared small surprises, such as helping with chores, baking simple treats or giving hugs and compliments throughout the day.

These gestures show that love is not about how much money one spends, but the thought and effort behind the action.

Even a small drawing, a handmade bracelet or a handwritten note can become a treasured memory for years to come.

Valentine’s Day teaches children an important life lesson: any gift is meaningful as long as it comes from the heart.

What truly matters is thinking about others and showing appreciation. By encouraging children to express gratitude and love, we help them understand that the greatest gift they can give is kindness and sincerity.

Here are the letters from Starchild readers on the topic, Valentine’s Day.

“I love my parents because they have taken good care of me since I was a baby. I want to thank them and wish both of them a happy Valentine’s Day,” says Asher Wang Qi Chuen, eight.

Asher Wang Qi Chuen, 8
Asher Wang Qi Chuen, 8

Older sibling Bethany Wang Qi Syuen, 11, says her greatest Valentine is her family. “I am thankful to them for supporting and encouraging me in my studies as well as my extracurricular activities.”

Joanna Tan, 12
Joanna Tan, 12

Joanna Tan, 12, writes, “On Valentine’s Day, my father gave my mother red roses and we had dinner together. Last year, my parents had a special candlelight dinner. This year, we spent quality time together and I made pink paper carnations for my mother. I also wrote a handwritten note to thank her. Dear Mum, thank you for your endless love, patience and sacrifices. I may not say it often, but I truly appreciate everything you do. I love you so much.”

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Email your contributions to lifestyle@thestar.com.my by Mar 6. Please put “STARCHILD: Hari Raya” in the subject line of your email.

Scanned drawings should be in jpeg format, with a resolution of 200dpi. Your contributions must carry your full name, age (open to children aged 12 and below only), gender, phone contact and address. Instead of handwritten letters, please type out your letters.


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