MOTHERS who pursue their studies while raising families often find that the impact reaches far beyond themselves.
Their persistence inspires children, partners and friends, showing that learning can be woven into everyday life. With books and homework shared side by side, their journeys remind those around them that resilience and growth strengthen not only the individual and family, but also society as a whole.
This is valuable as the government aims to raise female labour force participation to 60% by 2030. As such, it is crucial that women receive societal, governmental and institutional support. Most importantly, representation matters for women and girls.
Lecturer Elma Dewiyana Ismail says she finds it heartening that her journey can inspire others, even in small ways.
“I’ve had colleagues, students and even people around me share that seeing me continue my studies while managing a family gave them the confidence to believe it’s possible for them too.”
Noor Amirah Asraf, a sub-editor, says she has, in some ways, become an example among her family and friends.
“My cousin once told me, ‘You managed it while working full-time and caring for a baby – so I have no excuse not to finish what I’m doing.’
“Friends said the same – that it was inspiring to see me determined to complete what I started despite the extra workload and constant rushing between home, work and school.
“But I always remind them it was only possible because I had an amazing support system. My husband was understanding – he never pressured me to choose between family, work or studies, and stepped in whenever I couldn’t. My family was equally supportive, and I was very lucky.”
There will always be hardships and setbacks along the way, says senior lecturer Dr Choong Chiau Ling.
“I hope my experiences inspire more mothers to pursue their passions and dreams. Never be discouraged, and always appreciate the experience and the people you meet along the way.
“Follow your heart and always know that you have a family to fall back on when you need them. I know I have.”
As for Then Jin Hong, she is simply grateful she stuck to her decision to hit the books despite the challenges.
“I have never regretted it. Some of my friends are quite surprised at how I manage work, family and studies at the same time. But honestly, when you are in it, you slowly figure out your own way to manage and keep moving forward.
“My message to other mothers is simple: If you have a dream, go for it. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to stop chasing your dreams. It may not be easy, but it is definitely possible.”
Elma adds that mothers who pursue studies are not just building their own future, but also shaping the mindset and resilience of the next generation by setting a positive example.
“If there’s one message I would like other mothers to take from my experience, it is that you don’t have to wait for the ‘perfect time’ to pursue your goals, because that time may never come.
“There will always be responsibilities, challenges and doubts, but that doesn’t mean you have to stop growing. It’s not easy, and it’s not about doing everything perfectly. It’s about taking small, consistent steps, asking for support when needed, and trusting the process. And most importantly, always seek guidance from Allah in whatever you do.”
