Heart And Soul: Diving deep into life's seasons


By KANIKA

For the writer, scuba diving mirrors the journey of life, with every depth revealing lessons about our past and our path ahead. — Freepik

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As I was diving recently at the Surin Islands in Thailand, it struck me that scuba diving mirrors the journey of human life in quiet, profound ways.

Each stage of a dive offers its own lessons, reminding us of where we have come from and how we move forward.

A dive begins with a leap into the ocean – a sudden entry into another world. It is not unlike birth, when we emerge from the safety of the womb into a vast environment we must learn to navigate. That first splash, cold and startling, is our introduction to a new rhythm of existence.

Soon after, we descend into the depths with excitement, brimming with energy. The underwater world unfolds before us: vibrant corals, curious fish, shifting currents and the mesmerising contours of the seabed. In those early moments, everything feels fresh, colourful and full of possibility. This resembles childhood growing into young adulthood – a stage filled with discovery, adventure and the thrill of experiencing life’s wonders for the first time.

As the dive progresses, air and energy slowly diminish. A responsible diver begins to ascend to shallower depths, aware that lingering too long in the deep carries risks.

In life, too, as we move from the vigour of manhood into the later stages of age, our pace naturally changes. We can still appreciate the beauty around us, but what we engage with – and how deeply – shifts. We watch younger divers descend to the depths we once explored freely, knowing that returning there would now be unwise. It is a gentle reminder that while youth cannot be reclaimed, experience and perspective are our new strengths.

Eventually, every diver reaches the point where it is time to resurface. Air runs low, muscles tire and the body signals that the dive must end. This final ascent mirrors the last chapter of human life. When age advances and the body grows fragile, there comes a moment when we, too, must prepare to leave this beautiful earth. The dive, like life, comes full circle.

The lesson is simple yet profound: never linger too long at any stage of life – or depth of the sea – believing you can return to it whenever you wish.

Each level of the sea, like each season of life, is unique and fleeting. Use your time wisely, savour each moment and be mindful of the currents that can pull you along before you realise how far you’ve gone.

Life, like diving, is a journey of depth, wonder and eventual ascent – and every stage deserves to be lived with intention.

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