Suffering in silence: Confronting sexual assault on men

THE recent case of a university lecturer charged with sexually assaulting two male students highlights the rising cases of sexual assault in Malaysia, including against males. Sexual assault does not discriminate.

It affects women, children, and men alike.

This incident is a stark reminder that males are also vulnerable to such violations, and the victims should be applauded for coming forward.

Deep-seated stereotypes about masculinity create shame and fear, leading to underreporting and silent suffering.

We must encourage open dialogue and challenge the misconception that only women can be victims of sexual assault. Even more damaging is the misconception that underaged boys or adult males cannot be victims because of the mistaken belief that men should welcome or enjoy such violations.

Sexual assault is a grievous crime, and dismantling the barriers that prevent minor or adult males from seeking help starts with open conversations in communities, followed by concrete legal and institutional action.

Support for male victims must be expanded. Inclusivity in trauma recovery programmes is crucial, and funds should be allocated towards awareness campaigns so that men are not looked down upon for seeking help, especially in cases of sexual assault. Creating safe spaces where boys and men can speak openly without fear of ridicule can encourage more survivors to come forward. We can learn from countries where male-specific support services exist, such as the UK and Ireland.

From a legal standpoint, improvements are necessary. Government bodies should review and potentially revise sexual assault laws. Currently, under Malaysia's Penal Code, rape is defined strictly as a

man having sexual intercourse with a woman against her will or without her consent, thereby excluding males as potential victims. This definition needs reconsideration to encompass all potential scenarios and victims.

In 2023, the police recorded 3,361 cases of sexual harassment and assault, with 135 male victims making up about 4% of the total. This figure is already significant, and the number of unreported cases is likely much higher. When male rape victims lodge reports, cases are often classified under different provisions, reinforcing the legal gap.

Sexual assault is not about gender. It is about power by the perpetrator over the victims. A criminal offence should not be defined by who it happens to, nor be gender specific, but by the violation itself. Progress means recognising that all survivors deserve support, justice, and the right to be heard.

Neow Choo Seong

MCA Youth Information Chief