When looking to adopt a pet, do specify size and activity level in order to prevent mismatches. Photo: 123rf.com
Rescuers and shelters typically have dozens, if not hundreds, of pets. It can be very hard to make a choice, especially because dogs in a group at a shelter can behave differently from when they are with one friend or in a house.
So how do you make the most of your communication so you get a good match?
The first step is to write a note that provides a snapshot introduction of the kind of home you're offering.
"Share about the type of house you live in, the kind of neighbourhood you're in, and where you plan to keep the dog during the day and at night," MDDB's sponsorship coordinator Brenda Chia says. "Then add in who in the family will be in charge of taking care the dog overall, and who will stay at home with the dog in the daytime."
These details will make it clear if you want a lapdog or a guard dog, for you or for your kids.
In addition, it is useful if you mention whether you are an experienced dog lover or a new enthusiast. So add in whether you have had dogs before and if these were already socialised dogs or also rescues.
You might also specify size and activity level. That's unpredictable with young dogs, but saying "I love to hike and plan to walk my dog 10km every weekend" or "I am secretly a couch potato and want a little dog who needs short walks" prevents mismatches.
However good the match is, expect any animal to take at least three months to settle in.
"Do have patience and love," Brenda advises. "Don’t give up and don’t put too much pressure on yourself or the dog. Treat it as a new family member in the house."
