How to talk to kids about racism

Children absorb attitudes about racism from the media and people around them, so don't be afraid to discuss racism with them and be a positive role model for them. — Filepic

Children are always watching and listening, but since the protests for racial justice (sparked by American George Floyd's killing) have spread across the globe, they’re witnessing, absorbing and internalising possibly more than anyone knows.

A recent statement from the American Academy of Pediatrics says paediatricians are “deeply concerned about the effects of racism on children.

“Even vicarious racism – secondhand racism witnessed through social media, conversations with friends or family, or media images – harms children’s health.”

So, how can you begin talking with children about racial bias and injustice issues?

Here are a few suggestions to get the conversation started:

• Silence is its own message – don’t avoid conversations.
• Reflect on your own biases and uncomfortable feelings.
• Colour is real – don’t ignore or pretend it’s not there.
• Start talking about racism early in your child’s life.
• Read books together about racial equality and anti-racism.
• Listen to their questions and be honest with your answers.
• Realise that this isn’t one conversation, but rather a series of many.
• Be a good example.

“For children and adolescents of all ages, the most powerful communication strategy is role-modelling,” says Mayo Clinic paediatric psychiatrist Dr Paul Croarkin.

“Parents and caregivers often underestimate how important their own behaviours and communications with others are versus direct communication with a child.” – Mayo Clinic News Network/Tribune News Service