The painter Norman Rockwell was known for his depictions of calm, domestic life in America, but his home life was nowhere near those idyllic portraits.
In the beginning of Fatherhood: A History Of Love And Power, Augustine Sedgewick recounts the troubles that Rockwell faced at home.
The artist complained about his wife’s drinking and her criticism, and once told one of his sons that he would kill himself if not for his boys.
The misery endured by Rockwell kicks off Sedgewick’s wide-ranging history of fatherhood, which he calls a “succession identity crises spanning thousands of years.”
Sedgewick’s book doesn’t offer a clear answer on what it means to be a father, but he offers a series of enlightening stories about how several famous figures have approached fatherhood.
It’s a motley assortment of dads, ranging from Plato to Bob Dylan.
The profiles, at times, feel disjointed, but that doesn’t make the details Sedgewick unearths about how the approach to fatherhood changed over the years any less interesting.
The book shows how naturalist Charles Darwin’s close relationship with his sons helped shape his research on natural selection. And how Dylan rewrote his happy childhood in Hibbing, Minnesota, as he gained fame and reinvented his story to fit his image.
“Dylan understood, arguably before anyone else, one of the defining emotional truths of rock ‘n’ roll: a perfectly nice home can sometimes be the worst kind of all,” Sedgewick writes.
Sedgewick’s book shouldn’t be viewed as a guide for fathers or families, but it is a timely read for a point where family roles continue to evolve and be challenged. – AP
