PETALING JAYA: Financial issues are among the main reasons for the rising divorce rates in the country, says a crime watch body.
Kuala Lumpur Crime Prevention Practitioners Association chairman Bok Siew Mun (pic) said another contributing factor is the immature use of social media platforms.
“Many couples share their marital problems on social media, either directly or through hints.
“This not only embarrasses their partner but also invites outside interference, which can make things worse.
“Some even compare their lives with those they see on social media. Seeing other couples happy or enjoying a wealthy lifestyle can lead to jealousy, dissatisfaction and conflict in the marriage,” he said when contacted.
According to the Department of Statistics Malaysia, in 2022, the number of divorce cases in Malaysia jumped significantly to 62,890 or 43.1%, compared to 43,936 cases the year before.
Bok said that due to the advent of technology, social media makes it easy to communicate with others, including ex-partners or new acquaintances, which could weaken trust in a marriage.
“Cases of cheating start with innocent chats that gradually turn into serious relationships.
“In addition, some couples are found to be addicted to social media and spend more time on their phones than talking to each other.
“This makes the relationship feel distant and less connected, creating a gap between them,” he said.
Bok also reminded the public against sharing too much personal information on social media platforms.
“Harmless acts like liking or commenting on someone else’s post can cause suspicion or lead to arguments.
“As such, couples need to be more mature in utilising social media. It should not be used to air personal grievances.
“Social media can either harm or strengthen a marriage and relationship, depending on how it is used,” he said, adding that there needs to be more awareness of the importance of mental health in a relationship.
