“As one of the students sitting for the Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia this year, extracurricular activities can sometimes feel like an unnecessary burden when my focus should be on studying. However, for me, they play an important role in leading a more balanced life.
I also have to thank my parents for helping me stay focused and motivated. While these activities may seem fun on the surface, coming home from school to hours of tuition, athletics training, homework and constant club messages is far from a holiday. They check in when my batteries are running low and remind me that it’s okay to drop activities if needed.”
Kaveeshan Li Hui Fang, 17
“My childhood was a fulfilling experience. In primary school, tuition classes ended at 3pm before I headed to daycare to finish homework and attend additional tuition until 6pm. I also had weekly band practices, while weekends were spent attending art and piano classes.
In secondary school, I joined the school band, English club and a student journalism programme. I had activities at least three days a week, and during peak event months, it could be something every day. However, I do not regret living life to the fullest because it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Challenges such as disagreements, miscommunication and criticism from teachers also became valuable lessons.
My parents never pressured me to become a certain person. They respected my choices and allowed me to make mistakes.”
Alicia Chia, 18
“My weekdays are mostly filled with tuition classes, but they’re arranged in a way that still gives me time to eat, rest and finish homework. I actually enjoy learning in tuition because I often understand things that I do not fully grasp in school.
Outside of academics, I join debating and music classes. Debating helps me think on my feet and express myself confidently, while music gives me another way to relax and be creative.
My parents believe a student’s life should be balanced, so weekends are mostly for family time or for me to do what I enjoy. That little space to breathe makes all the busy weekdays feel worth it.
Most of my activities are voluntary, so I get to choose what I enjoy and what I want to commit to. I feel my parents are investing in me rather than pressuring me, giving me both structure and freedom to grow academically and personally.
Balancing learning and fun isn’t always easy, but it has taught me to manage my time and appreciate even the small moments.”
Isabel Lim, 15
