PETALING JAYA: A dedicated clinic for men would make it easier for them to seek help on health issues such as erectile dysfunction (ED) without feeling awkward, say several men.
Analyst Ahmad Dzulkifli, 30, from Puchong, said such clinics can send a message that men’s health matter, while creating a safe space to talk about issues like ED or fertility.
“A lot of men feel shy or think it’s a sign of weakness. Men are generally raised to just ‘tahan’ (bear with it) and not talk about private stuff, especially when it involves sex or fertility.
“Some are afraid of what the doctor might say or diagnose while some just don’t know where to go to seek help,” he said.
Ahmad believes lifestyle and food consumption patterns can contribute to ED and men’s health issues, adding that many Malaysians are used to eating a lot of high-fat, sugary food and don’t exercise enough.
Many also smoke, vape or have stressful jobs.
“Obesity, high blood pressure, as well as diabetes are significant contributors to ED and come from poor lifestyle choices.
“We need more awareness, better health campaigns and open conversation so guys don’t feel awkward talking about ED. And we need proper channels or a place for men to get real information and support,” he added.
When addressing issues like ED, researcher Charles R., 50, from Kuala Lumpur, said it often boils down to societal expectations.
“Apart from physical strength and emotional tolerance, men are expected to be faultless when it involves the male reproductive organ which is often thought to symbolise male superiority.
“Hence, the fear of being considered a lesser man, especially for those below 50 years of age, often leads to men not seeking medical help.
“Men also adopt a mentality of ‘not fixing something which is not broken’ and unfortunately, apply this to their health as well. Hence, early symptoms are ignored,” he said.
Charles agreed that having a male health oriented clinic with male doctors will be beneficial, considering a majority of men are too shy to seek advice from female doctors or urologists.
This, he added, would help certain segments of men who believe in early intervention or prevention as there are still those taking the ‘wait and see’ approach until their health deteriorates.
Executive Adam G., 29, from Petaling Jaya, said it boils down to ego and the fear of not wanting to know something negative.
“Health checkups are generally okay for me, but ED and fertility are ‘taboo’,” he added.
Men should get checked and not overlook the pre-marital medical tests to ensure compatibility and expectations are in place.
“Malaysian men also should just stop being ‘macho’ and sweep health checkups under the rug.
“Just think of it as just another general health checkup because there are no right or wrong answers, but it can help steer you in the right direction,” he said.
