Dear Thelma: I can’t see a future together but it’s hard to let him go

This couple is in an on-off, on-again, off-again (long-distance) relationship that has gone on for over four years. The girl is confused and tired of repeatedly breaking up and patching up.

Dear Thelma,

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than four years. We met during the end of our university life.We used to be very happy, inseparable and enjoyed being with each other. And we thought about getting married.