BEIJING: A romantic marriage proposal at a concert in northern China attracted significant backlash after the couple blocked the view of other spectators, leading to numerous complaints.
On Sept 12, Chinese folk singer Zhao Lei performed at Beijing’s National Stadium, known as the Bird’s Nest. As tens of thousands of fans sang along, a man in the front section of the audience stood up to propose to his partner.
Videos circulating online featured the woman in a white wedding dress, complete with a veil. Overcome with emotion, she stood up, raised her arms, and waved towards the stage.
However, this romantic moment sparked vocal complaints from fans seated behind the couple, who expressed frustration at having their view obstructed. A viral clip clearly captured many attendees shouting: “Sit down!”
Before the proposal, the couple had also distributed wedding candies by tossing them towards nearby audience members, prompting security staff to intervene. Some attendees were heard saying: “That’s enough, stop throwing them!”
The individual who recorded the video, identifying only as Xie, noted that the couple remained standing for more than five minutes, leaving those behind them “completely unable to see the stage.”
After the clip went viral, discussions about the incident garnered over 110 million views on mainland social media platforms.
Many users criticised the couple’s actions, arguing that concertgoers had paid to see their favourite singer perform, not to witness a stranger’s personal celebration.
“The audience was already being polite by merely shouting ‘sit down.’ If it were me, I would have shouted ‘get divorced,’” one commenter remarked.
Another user commented: “A proposal at a concert feels awkward because no one is truly concerned about your happiness.”
Conversely, some urged for greater understanding from the audience.
A widely shared comment read: “A proposal deserves congratulations as long as it does not inconvenience others. The couple could have quietly exchanged rings or waited until the concert ended.”
Following the incident, the couple requested the removal of the viral clip and indicated that they had contacted the police, according to Jin Evening News.
Concert proposals have long been popular in China and were once regarded as highly romantic gestures.
However, the incident at Zhao’s concert challenged this perception, with some fans asserting that romance should not infringe on others’ rights.
In September, singer Li Ronghao’s concert in Chengdu, southwest China, saw multiple couples proposing. Li expressed that he was honoured to witness these happy moments and playfully stated that he had become a “wedding host.”
This trend has also sparked a niche resale market for concert seats that hold symbolic meanings. Seats with numbers linked to phrases such as “I love you” or “forever” are often considered ideal spots for proposals.
Reports indicated that at Jay Chou’s Hong Kong concert, a pair of adjacent seats numbered 13 and 14 was resold by ticket scalpers for 12,013 yuan (US$1,800), while a single ticket originally cost HK$1,380 (US$180).
The numbers 13 and 14, when combined, sound similar to “one life, one lifetime” in Mandarin, signifying “a whole lifetime.”
One ticket scalper even shared tips on how to attract attention from stage cameras and performers, noting that the more dramatic the action, the greater the likelihood of being featured on screen.
In China, however, ticket scalping is illegal, with serious cases potentially leading to criminal penalties. - South China Morning Post
