Dear Thelma: He became a different man after the honeymoon

I thought he could be a loving father to my son. I was wrong.

I am 29 years old and my husband and I just had our first wedding anniversary. He is four years younger than me. I have a seven-year-old son from a previous marriage, and we have a month-old daughter together.

Two years ago when we first met, he gave my child lots of attention. It impressed me a lot that he was a loving person, just as how a father is to a child. I thought that he could be a great father to my son.