Dear Thelma: Bad decisions made me jobless – and unwell

"Living life as a recluse, jobless and sick person is no easy feat. I feel like I don't have a future to look forward to anymore."

Dear Thelma: My husband wants both me and his mistress

Recently, he broke down and cried inconsolably, saying that he feels torn between both of us.

Dear Thelma: We're of different races and she's much older than me

I don't know if I have the strength to fight against culture and family in order to marry her. I'm worried that my family, relatives, and society will not agree with me.

Dear Thelma: My dream girl is still pining for her ex

"As time went by, she told me that actually she hadn't got over her ex and that she somehow kept thinking of him and that my actions reminded her of him."

Dear Thelma: My siblings and I quarrel a lot and my parents are too busy to care

Dear Thelma: He says he loves me but he also has feelings for another girl

Dear Thelma: I do not feel loved by my own family

Dear Thelma: I'm an adopted child, with no citizenship or freedom

Dear Thelma: Feeling hurt as my good friend is pulling away from me

Dear Thelma: My son has eco-anxiety and I don’t know how to help him