Everyday burdens of binational families


ACROSS Malaysia, hundreds of binational families live in a peculiar state of semi‑belonging. One spouse may have built a life here for decades, speak the language, share the food and the festivals, yet still be formally classified – and priced – as a foreigner.

For non‑citizen spouses, this legal label translates into a constant, low‑level reminder that you do not fully belong. No matter how much you try to fit in – culturally, linguistically – the systemic barriers are hard to overcome. Big issues with work and financial and basic social services are bad enough. Now add to them more subtle but persistent reminders of your alienness in daily life:

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