Does a big age gap help or hurt a relationship?


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If you ask couple therapists whether a relationship with a big age gap will work, they’ll likely tell you that the opinion that matters most is your own. — Roger Richter/Westend61/dpa

If you ask one relationship coach, the answer is clear: Couples should not be more than five years apart in age, no matter who is the older one.

Otherwise, the older or younger partner can wind up being a crutch for something the other partner does not have, says Christine Backhaus, a relationship psychologist based in the German city of Frankfurt.

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