EVERY labour and delivery is different. However, most follow a general pattern. Hence, the expectant mother has a general idea of the changes that will occur in her body to enable her to deliver the baby.
Usually, an expectant mother wants the baby’s father with her during labour. This has been shown to be helpful since his encouragement and emotional support will help her relax so that she can reduce the need for drugs to relieve pain. Furthermore, sharing the experience of childbirth has been shown to improve bonding in the family. On the other hand, the father may not want to be present and, therefore, another partner (such as a sister or mother) may be more appropriate. The parents can decide what is best for them.