Check your car seat limits for safety. Children grow so fast and they can easily outgrow car seats faster than parents realise. — Dreamstime/TNS
NEW YEAR resolutions are often sweeping and grand, but often, you can reap the biggest rewards by building off the strengths already in place.
Helping to make your family safer, stronger and more harmonious may not require a complete overhaul, but rather a few strategic tweaks.
Here are eight goals for parents and caregivers to achieve this year:
■ Check your vaccination
Get everyone up-to-date on recommended immunisations. Vaccines are the best way to protect yourself, your children and other loved ones from dangerous viruses such as flu and Covid-19, which are spiking among children. Call your paediatrician to make sure your children are up-to-date on all recommended immunisations, and ask any questions you may have. And remind your children that good hand hygiene habits help prevent the spread of germs.
■ Do good digital
What are your kids watching on TV and online? Devote some time to researching age-appropriate media. Make a family media use plan and try to prevent gaming from becoming an unhealthy habit. Remember that screen time shouldn’t always be done solo.
Watch a show together and discuss what’s happening. Play a video game together. Screen time can become bonding time when adults are active participants.
■ Take time to read
Read together. Set aside time for reading each day. For younger children, build it into the bedtime routine. For older children and teens, share a favorite book by taking turns reading aloud or listen to audiobooks together. Reading has so many brain-boosting benefits for kids. Reading together also strengthens that special bond between you and your child.
■ Go out
Get outside and explore. Spending time outdoors can be a great mood booster, and help families get needed physical activity and vitamin D while enjoying time in nature. Spending time outside also gives your child’s eyes a healthy screen-time break and helps them sleep better at night.
■ Check car safety
Check your car seat limits for safety. Kids grow so fast and they can easily outgrow car seats faster than parents realise. Keep children riding rear-facing as long as possible, up to the limits of their car seat, because it is the safest mode.
This commonly includes children under two and most children up to age four. Remind anyone who transports your child by car to abide by all safety rules.
■ Cook together
Set aside time to cook as a family. Many families enjoy baking treats together during the holidays. Keep the fun going. Schedule special times to cook together and get children involved, from choosing recipes to buying ingredients at the store. If your child is a picky eater, this can get them more interested in trying new, healthy foods.
■ Be prepared
Make a family disaster kit. It’s scary to think how disasters like wildfires, hurricanes or tornadoes could affect our communities, but extreme weather events are becoming more frequent due to climate change. Being ready is one way to be less afraid.
Ask your children what they would want with them in a disaster and assemble basic necessities, like nonperishable foods, flashlights, and bottled water, for when a disaster strikes.
■ Look after mental health
Mind your mental health and practise self-care. When was the last time you had a check-up? Got proper rest? Depression and anxiety can happen to both mums and dads during and after pregnancy, even up to three years after having a child.
Maybe this is the year you decide to join a parent’s group – or step back from some activities if you find it hard to say no and are overextended. Your paediatrician can help you with your child’s health, but also provide some guidance on self-care for parents.
When caregivers are healthy and rested, they are better equipped to provide the best care for their children. – American Academy of Pediatrics/Tribune News Service
