Dear Thelma: He wants sex, and punishes me for not giving in

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I am in a complicated relationship with a man who is about 10 years my senior.

I worked with K for a while and kept in contact with him after we left the company. We only started dating three years after that, around the middle of 2018. Slightly before that, I decided to go back to my studies.