Dear Thelma: My husband is depressed, hurts himself and has financial issues

My husband recently told me that he is very depressed because of his work. He basically does not like the concept of working nine-to-five. He has been working in his current company since 2015, just before I delivered our first baby.

He has stayed on this job since our first child was born as we now have two kids to take care of. Before that, he used to change jobs frequently and was out of a job during my first pregnancy.