Dear Thelma: My lover is dragging his feet over his divorce

I have been dating this man for over a year now. I’m deeply in love with him and he feels the same too.

But we are both married. He is sorting out his divorce and he has been telling me that for a year. I feel he is not lying to me but it’s the wife who doesn’t want to let go of the relationship and he just wants to end it in a proper way.