Dear Thelma: My husband is a mama’s boy and needs to man up

I am in my late 20s and have been married to my husband (who is the same age) for almost a year. We dated for more than five years and during that time, he was patient and never raised his voice.

Things changed once we started to plan for our marriage. He seldom helped me with the wedding planning or when we were renovating our new house even though I asked him to. He would sometimes show me a sour face because he didn’t like doing these tasks.