Dear Thelma: My wife cheated on me, now it’s my turn

He is waiting for his children to grow up, then he's leaving his wife.

My wife cheated on me 10 years ago with her coworker, Mr M, from Nepal. I found out from their phone messages and I confronted her regarding this matter. I told her to send her coworker back to Nepal for good but she told me that she would resent me for the rest of her life.

I have three children, so in order to keep our family together I decided to accept my wife's demands and make peace with everyone including Mr M. He still comes around to the house sometimes, although I hate it, I don’t show my anger as my kids are around and they shouldn’t know about this matter.