Why sons need to talk about their dreams for their families, too

You should never ask a woman how "she copes". Photos: Stocksnap

Tina Fey says the rudest question you can ask women – worse than “How old are you?” or “What do you weigh?” – is “How do you juggle it all?” It’s too accusatory, she maintains.

I wonder if the problem lies less in the question itself and more in whom we ask it of: namely, mums. And whom we don’t ask it of: namely, dads.