Dear Thelma: He refuses to erase the past

I discovered my husband’s infidelity with a young Vietnamese woman more than a year ago. I tried very hard to salvage our marriage though the idea of divorce kept cropping up.

I’ve tried to forgive my husband’s infidelity as I still love him, though I feel much resentment. I’ve gone through tears and sleepless nights for the past year and have tried to move on.