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by victoria brown
PETALING JAYA: The ex-flame of Bosnian Ervin Ahbabovic has dismissed claims that she abused his sperm to have "better offspring" with European genes.
"I have better 'genes' than him. He always would claim that he was superior," exclaimed Melanie (not her real name), in an exclusive interview with The Star Online.
The well-educated 29-year-old entrepreneur said she was in a relationship with Ervin but that "no one will love a bigoted, unintelligent man like him".
She also claimed Ervin abused her physically and emotionally for years.
"He beat me up and disconnected me from everyone until I recovered so no one would see my injuries," she said.
"He even used my phone to send messages to himself just to show his friends that I was hard up for him," she added.
"He made me feel like what he was doing to me was normal. He even made sure that my family and friends were pushed away so I didn’t have anyone to turn to," said Melanie.
Melanie also claimed Ervin had also abused his ex-wife, who has since remarried.
"He said his ex-wife did something really bad to him. He told me some sob story and I pitied him. I even gave him money and lent him a car," she said.
"He also claimed to have psychological problems from war (in Bosnia). He also said he had worked for intelligence agencies," said Melanie.
"He is a sociopath. He will make you believe that he’s a nice guy," she added.
"He was the one who stabbed himself and he was the one was threatening suicide if I left him," said Melanie.
Melanie said she tried to get out of the abusive relationship many times.
"I tried to kick him out from my life but he wouldn’t let me," she revealed.
"He threatened that he would ruin my life if I left him, and he did. It is just that I didn’t expect this after a year (of not seeing him)," she added.
She said that she finally got the strength to leave him last year, when she kicked him out of her home.
Melanie also said that Ervin stalked her in retaliation for ditching him.
"He is like Gargamel (a character from The Smurfs). He’s not the smartest of wizards but equally dangerous," she added.
Melanie has not allowed her son to see Ervin, and said that; "Nobody should expose his or her child to a maniac like him".
"He doesn’t bother about my child or me. All he cares about is his 15 minutes of fame," said Melanie.
Melanie has since lodged several police reports against her ex-boyfriend, and refers to his lawsuit against her as "a joke" and a "total surprise".
Bosnian national Ervin Ahbabovic had filed a RM600,000 civil suit against his former girlfriend for the misuse of his sperm to get a child in a wrongful manner, and to have him recognised as the father in their son’s birth certificate.
Melanie said she will not hesitate to file defamation suit against any individual or media organisation that use her real name or photograph without her approval.
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